Saturday, October 13, 2012

FOR BELOVED SISTERS

This is a message for every sister :=>

♥ Who got married but doesn't have children: dears sister, know thatAysha (radhyaAllahu ‘anha) got married to Prophet Muhammad (sallAllahu alaihi wa sallam) in a very young age but she has never had children.

♥ who was divorced: dear sister, the 2 daughters of Prophet Muhammad (sallAllahu alaihi wa sallam) got divorced even though they are the daughters of the messenger of Allah!

♥ Who got married and is didn't get pregnant yet : remember dear, the first wife and mother of believers Khadijah (radhyaAllahu ‘anha) got married to Prophet Muhammad (sallAllahu alaihi wa sallam) when she was 40 years old and she got 6 children but saida Aysha (radhyaAllahu ‘anha) didn't has children from him (sallAllahu alaihi wa sallam) even though she was so young. So there is absolutely a Divine Wisdom behind that.

♥ who didn't get married yet and afraid of what people may say about her: don’t worry dear sister, marriage is Rizq from Allah and HE will surely grant it to when HE wills it and not when you want it. Don’t care of what people may say about you, remember that Maryam (‘alaiha salam) never got married and she is the only woman who has a whole Surah with her name! So if not having a husband is a defect, she wouldn't has been mentioned in Qur’an!Not getting married is not a flaw or a defect but not maintaining chastity is :

The real defect is that a woman doesn't preserve her purity and chastity be patient and be sure that Allah will reward you greatly for your patience at the end this Dunya is not about men or getting married but about submitting your will peacefully to Allah and accept what ever HE decrees for you..